Are You a Lover or a Fighter?

You Are a Fighter

You are stubborn to a fault, but you can't help it. It's your way or the highway, and you're ready to fight. While it may feel good to be the one who's always right, your friends don't see it that way! Compromise a little. Show more love. It will get you further in the long run.

Are You a Lover or a Fighter?

How Strong is Your Relationship?

Your Relationship is Still Building Strength

You're relationship is fairly strong, but you're still working on making things solid. Make sure you're both treating each other with kindness and respect, even when things aren't going well. Your relationship isn't in danger, but it could be if a crisis hits. You need more strength to get through the bad times. Remember what attracted you to each other, and try to bring some of that fire back. It's not too late!

How Strong is Your Relationship?

What Kind of Communicator Are You?

You Communicate Passionately

You speak from the heart. You can't separate your feelings from what you're saying, even in a professional context. You tend to speak dramatically, with lots of passion and emotion. It's easy for you to get swept up in what you're saying. You like to connect with people early on so that you can personalize what you are saying to them. When you converse, you try to find common ground and harmony. Even if you disagree with someone, you try to emphasize where you agree.

What Kind of Communicator Are You?

How Warm Are You?

You Are Lukewarm

You feel open and generous sometimes, but you don't always feel like being friendly. You're not naturally outgoing or curious about people. Being around others drains your resources. So considering how you feel, you're actually quite warm. You do your best. And you often find it easy to be warm toward the people you like the most.

How Warm Are You?

How Assertive Are You?

You Are Assertive

You assert yourself whenever it's necessary, but you're always polite and appropriate about it. You're not a bully, a manipulator, or a nag. You just state what you need quickly and honestly. You've been assertive for so long that it just comes naturally to you. You're definitely not shy. People wonder why you get what you want in life. Well, it's because you ask for it!

How Assertive Are You?

What's Your Friendship Style?

Your Friendship Style is Independent

You love your friends, but you don't always need them as much as they need you. You like to do your own thing. Sometimes this means taking a break from your friends and carving your own path. As long as your friends give you the space you need, you are happy to be there for them whenever you can. Your friends lean on you for advice and problem solving. You tend to be "the rock." You and an Empathetic Friend: Go well together. Your Empathetic Friend understand and accepts you... but may be too needy sometimes. You and a Gregarious Friend: Get along well, as long as your Gregarious Friend is happy to only see you occasionally. You and another Independent Friend: Have a love / hate thing going on. When you agree, things are blissful. However, more often than not, you butt heads. You and a Philosophical Friend: Are somewhat a matter of opposites attract. You're both thinkers, but you think very differently.

What's Your Friendship Style?

How Do You Really Feel About Your Family?

You Feel Nurturing Toward Your Family

You like to persuade your family that you are right about things. You like to be the leader in your family. You feel like your family is prone to too many arguments and instability. You never feel like things can be completely peaceful. When times get difficult, you are able to be the adult in your family. You are able to keep your family together. You are honest and very outspoken with your family. You sometimes hurt feelings by saying things they don't want to hear.

How Do You Really Feel About Your Family?

Do You Spread Holiday Cheer?

You Spread Some Holiday Cheer

You do your best to give time, money, and joy during the holidays. You don't always spread cheer to everyone, but you do the best. Unlike most people, you actually spend time reflecting on the meaning of the holidays. And you worry more about doing the right thing than getting the right presents.

Do You Spread Holiday Cheer?

Are You Ready to Be a Parent?

You Are 12% Ready to Be a Parent

You are definitely not ready to be a parent. You don't have much support, and you don't have the emotional resources to have a kid. This doesn't mean that you would be a bad parent, it just means you have some work to do. Get your finances, health, and relationships in order. Then you'll be ready to have a kid. If you do happen to be a parent, hang in there - and try to find support where you can. Things can only get better from here.

Are You Ready to Be a Parent?

Would You Be a Good Wife or Husband?

You Would Be a Good Spouse 60% of the Time

In general, you have the skills and ability to make a marriage work. However, you're still a bit too selfish to be a good spouse. You almost always put yourself first. If you want to have a good marriage (either someday or right now), you're going to have to give more than you take. Be proactive every day. Work on being a good friend, family member, and partner. With practice, you'll be an excellent spouse.

Would You Be a Good Wife or Husband?

Are You in Love?

Your Love Score Is: 40

It's possibly love, but you're a long way from having a love that will last with your partner. Your relationship still needs a lot of work and attention before it is healthy. You and your partner don't have a lot of consideration or respect for one another. Compromise doesn't come easily to either of you, and you often wonder why you even bother trying. You need to step back and figure out if your relationship should be saved. Be honest with yourself. In other words, you need to decide if you really love this person or not.

Are You in Love?

What Family Role Do You Play?

You Are the Daughter

You very keyed in to emotions. You care deeply and are quick to forgive others. You often get lost in your own thoughts and daydreams. You find it difficult to stay focused. At your best, you are sweet, sensitive, and innocent. You bring joy to people's lives. You are open and expressive. You love sharing your optimistic, dreamy vision of the world. At your worst, you feel powerless and like a victim. Your fear can paralyze you. You tend to complain and whine. Whether your complaints are legitimate or not, you're not one to solve your own problems.

What Family Role Do You Play?

Are You Closer to Your Friends or Your Family?

You Are Somewhat Closer to Your Friends

Your family is there for you at times, but you really rely on your friends for support. Your friends understand you, accept you, and love you in a way your family doesn't. Your friends are also incredibly fun to be around. Your friendships are your most satisfying relationships. In fact, you're so close to your friends, you may consider some of them to be honorary family members.

Are You Closer to Your Friends or Your Family?

How Friendly Are You?

Your Friendliness Score is 52 (Friendly)

No doubt about it, you are a good friend and a friend to many. You're one of the first people your friends call when they have news. You are quite popular, and your circle of friends is always growing. And while you are always making new friends, you are careful not to leave your old friends behind. While you are a great friend, you're not perfect. Sometimes you slip a little. Make sure to listen to your friends and make time for them. Occasionally they feel a little neglected.

How Friendly Are You?

Do You Have Healthy Relationships?

You Have Fairly Healthy Relationships

You try your best in relationships, and you do a pretty good job. You're as considerate, honest, and giving as you can be. There's always more that you can do, and sometimes you do leave people feeling a bit neglected. Great relationships don't happen overnight. As long as you keep making improvements, your relationships will get better!

Do You Have Healthy Relationships?

Are You Charming?

You Are Pretty Charming

While you're not a natural charmer, you can be charming when you want to be. And lucky for those around you, you usually feel like turning on the charm. You project a happy, calm image - even when you're feeling the exact opposite. You make people feel great about being around you... though you're not always up for putting in the effort.

Are You Charming?

Are You a Good Listener?

You Are an Okay Listener

You try to be a good listener, and usually you are. But some people are just so boring and difficult to listen to! Your mind tends to wander during some conversations. You are likely to space out a little or try to change the subject to something more interesting.

Are You a Good Listener?

How Do You Respond: Fight or Flight?

Your Response is: Stay Calm

You don't have much of a fight or flight response. In fact, you rather do neither. You don't like getting worked up. You are able to approach most threats calmly and rationally. You don't let your emotions get the best of you!

How Do You Respond: Fight or Flight?

What Are the Colors of Your Heart?

Your Heart is Blue and Green

Your heart is open and dynamic. You are flexible, optimistic, and expressive. You bring honesty and intimacy to relationships. You're good at expressing your needs to your partner.

What Are the Colors of Your Heart?

Do People Like You?

People Like You... Sometimes

You are liked, but only when people are able to overlook your faults. Deep down, you are a good person, but you definitely have some obnoxious tendencies. So step back, and try to figure out when people aren't responding to you positively. A few simple changes could make you a lot better liked! What People Don't Like About You: People don't like that you're not very interesting or engaging. You often bore them... and yourself. People don't like that you only tend to take complements. It makes you seem insecure... and unappreciative. What People Like About You: People like that you don't gossip or talk poorly of others. They trust that you will speak positively about them too.

Do People Like You?